I have been a regular customer on your blog for about 5 years now but I have never commented at anytime, just one of the silent consumers. I notice that bloggers no get holiday. Una go face computer from 6:am daily to 12:pm. kudus to you. I guess you deserve all the praises possible for such effort. Keep up the good work. I didn't believe that as a man, I'd be sending a 'Chronicle' too someday, but I'm finding it difficult to sleep anyway so I just thought I should do it now
While working in a drug manufacturing company some years ago, I met this damsel I'd like to get it going with, but when I eventually gather liver to approach her, she told me upfront that she's in a serious relationship, one that will eventually lead to marriage, and it eventually did. Anyway, we became close colleagues that people at the office even thought we were dating, but we never shared a kiss till she died. Our closeness even led to meeting her fiancé and family, her family house wasn't far from the office, so sometimes, after work we walk over to chat, eat and all that before I go home.
There was a I was there for her dad's 60th birthday, somebody just came downstairs to say hello to me and to my surprise this person looked exactly like her, the only difference is that she talks faster than her. Though she has told me about her younger sister who school in one of the private universities, but I'd never seen her. Since she was taken, I switched my interest to her younger sister. There was no toasting at all, we just kind of melted into each other and that was it. We became an inseparable item. She was the love of my life, I broke many rules because of her and she did same for me
Meanwhile, I was yearning for an upgrade from my Manager job at the company, so when a friend of mine suggested we partnered together in downstream oil sector, supplying AGO and DPK, I simply went for it. So with the little capital I'd saved up over time, we started doing business. Everything was going very well, we were making money well. We upgraded every year. Though we desired the bigger level, we needed capital to get there. My babe's elder sister who was already married then, said she won't mind joining us in the business, but when she saw the stress involved, sleeping at the depot, following trucks, fighting both individuals and corporate bodies for your pay after servicing LPOs, she got frustrated and quit.
But knowing she's interested in business and money and that she/her family has the capital we need, I approached her for a deal. And we agreed that she gives us a million and get 5% at the end of every month. She agreed and decided to test us with 3m, then 4, then 5, then 10. When her younger sister, which is my G/F saw as things dey go, she too began forcing her money on us. she started with 5m at once... About 2 years into our relationship, I caught her cheating on me. Mind you, I already told her I was in it for marriage, but she said she wanted to go for her Masters degree in Canada first before marriage. So I proposed to her and her parent's suggested we do our introduction before she left. 3 months after she left, I paid her a surprise visit in Canada. Lo and behold a man's things was around her apartment.
When I asked her about it, she said it was for her cousin. There are these people I see around their family, they live on the same street. I heard they are their extended cousins, then I also heard they are their family friends. I didn't bother. But there's one guy among them she was close to and I was told they grew up together. But I didn't know this guy also school in Canada. So when I realized he was the one she was talking about, I calmed down, but my intuition, told me something was fishy so I kept my ears open.
He came around to see me, hailed me as a bros, packed his things and went away... When I was leaving, I bought her a new phone and used some software to bug it. All the messages on her apps were dropping on the online database of the P.I company
A week later, when I got back to Nigeria, I signed into the app and my heart dropped. Come and see nude pics she's been sharing with the guy. Things they have been saying about me. How she's just with me because I am a matured and caring person. Because I dress well and because her family likes me, her sister insisted that I am a husband material and would have dated me when we met if not because she was already engaged. How his dick is the best. How she likes the way he vibrates on her and screams when he wants to cum. How he wished I wasn't in the picture, how he won't mind setting me up to be maimed in Nigeria if she gives him the go ahead.
Why she just wanted their relationship to remain FWB despite years of knowing each other from childhood. Then bank transactions of cash she's been sending to him.... till date the evidences are still coming in but she doesn't know a thing. In December, when he came back to the country, they still fucked. So after her masters, when she came back to Nigeria, I acted as though nothing was happening, since I was still trading with her money and the p***y was still good, I just carried on like its nothing too. But deep inside me, every valuable thing I held towards her has been flushed out. Since she had lots of money to waste, I asked her to invest extra 5M to the 5m with me, she did and I used her funds, her sister's (her hubby gets the return) and mine to open my own private firm. Sometime last year, after seeing that my businesses has stabilized to a point, I returned hers under the pretext that the economy is not favoring the oil and gas sector that much anymore.
But when I diversified into importation of tiles and bathroom wares (partnering with her dad), she by herself returned the money without asking for returns. Sometimes, I will use style to ask her about that guy, she will just talk as if, he's so so somewhere she doesn't know nor care about... me I will just nod my head too and I would still go ahead and smash that coochie like its nothing. She will be acting all innocent in my face and began constantly talking about how our wedding would be like, how she will choose this color and that souvenir, who will come play, how she and her friends will dance.
How she will shake her dirty ass. I will just nod my head like I hear you. After a while, her sight began irritating my guts, so I stop creating time to see her again. I have even started seeing someone else. No one is aware of this except a friend of mine. Even my family isn't aware... If her elder sister were still alive, maybe I would have poured my heart out to her
The issue now is that according to plan, we were suppose to get married in December but I didn't say anything about it at all. She has begun noticing my irritation and hesitation and she has gone to report me to her family, Pastor and my dad. Everyone's been calling me for a meeting. Her father (a man who has been mentoring me in business and which I respect so much) has been hinting me.... asking how far with our marriage plans?.... that I should come and see him to talk about it.
But I have just been posting the man. I have been avoiding him except its got to do with business.... even at that, if its not extremely important, I won't go. They have chosen next week Saturday as a meeting day for us to sort things out and pick a date. I know her dad, mum, Elder bro, late elder sister's hubby and Pastor would be there. The question now is should I take my friend and folks along too? and what do I tell them? I know in my heart that I can never marry her because the love and trust is already very dead but I also know that if I tell them I can't marry her because she's been cheating on me, she would deny vehemently, and I would be left with no option to show them my evidences? But I am thinking, won't it be an insult to the old man to come face to face with his daughter's nude photos and explicit chats? Please I need advice on how to go about this without hurting anyone.... another problem is that without my asking, she also contributed some quality amount of money into the property I am building.
Plus her father gave me tiles and interlocking stones worth a million. Sometimes, lots of confusing thoughts fly in my head I don't know how to sort this out. Though I am happy I discovered early before marriage maybe she would have brought a bastard home for me to father. Maybe she would still be sleeping with that guy because I doubt marriage would change that habit. Maybe she would be bringing him home to sleep with. Maybe one day the guy would just decide to hurt me. I just want to get rid of her presence in my life and move on in peace but I need some input on the proper way to go about it.
Culled Story from SDK Blog
Would think the best thing to do is approach the fiancee's Dad privately to explain all that has been going on (with proof of course) and why he cannot continue in the relationship again and thereafter explain to the girl likewise ( after financially settling accounts with the girl as well).
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