"Good day Stella,
As I write to you I'm in tears and my heart is heavy so please pardon my typo. My chronicle is about my husband, our marriage is three years plus and to God be the glory I have a son.
The issue I have with him is whenever we have an argument be it major or minor he will want to involve people. Its either he picks up his phone to call his family or he calls my family. The painful part is he will twist the story in such a way that I will be at fault bringing up things of the past.
Whenever he is at fault he will bring up issues we have had in the past where I wronged him and use as excuse. when he offends me he would just say sorry and it ends but when I offend him I beg, kneel, cry before he can forgive. But that doesn't stop him from bringing it up again at every little instance.
I'm honestly pained because I love my husband so much and I don't expect him to treat me this way, I'm not a demanding wife, things are not really rosey right now for him but I try to be there when he needs me. I contribute to our up keep. I'm not saying he is bad but this attitude of always trying to paint me black in front of people is what puts me off.
I don't know if he thinks marriage should be all smooth, sometimes when we have issues that are just minor the way he blows it out of proportion baffles me. He goes ahead to bring up things I have done in the past and use them to insult me or make me feel guilty. Things that are meant to be between us becomes what family will gather and talk about.
All this pains me because if only this man knows how much I love him like I'm a sucker for love and I show it every little time I have. I can be stubborn too but I tend to let things slide easily, I don't know how to keep malice but he is turning me to who I'm not my heart is getting hardened and I hate it.
Please help me how can I handle this part of him, I hurt every time we fight, I miss the man I dated I miss the man I feel in love with its like I don't know him anymore. Please help."
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