SDK's Chronicle - At a crossroad

Hi, Stellz. Great work you are doing here. Please hide my Id. I urgently need your red pen and that of BVs becos on my relationship. So, I met this guy last year March, I must confess that he is a great guy. I am 25 and he's 31. Few weeks into the relationship,he started demanding to meet my parents. And all that. I told my mum about him and she said she was going to pray and seek God's approval about my relationship before I introduce him to the family as it's the family tradition. 

She came back and said I could bring him, that our stars match each other, and that I will be fulfilled with him. To say I was happy is an understatement, I was overjoyed.

Now, to the issue. I discovered to my disappointment that this guy has anger issues, overly possessive and could be dangerously jealous few months after introducing him to my family. Only God knows how many slaps I have received from him just over some misunderstandings. He demands respect from me like kilode, he terms every of my reactions as disrespect if I have to confront him over anything. 

I tried to explain to my family but they don't seem to understand me, saying he's my destined husband that's why the devil is trying to separate us. If we had a quarrel,after slapping and verbally abusing me, he will then call my family to report me to them that I don't respect him. He has even succeeded in turning my family against me. 

I love him and I respect him but the way he demands respect from me makes me feel he wants me to worship him. The way he vibrates when he's angry makes me fear for my future with him. Another confusing thing about him is how sweet and humble he turns after every fight.
I feel trapped. Please, how do I handle this??

NB: he's fixed engagement for February. 

Sourced from StellaDimokokorkus blog.

THIS STORY GOT TO ME..WHY DO PEOPLE  SUSPEND COMMON SENSE WHEN THEY HAVE NOT HEARD GOD PERSONALLY? "